• on father’s day

    i’m struck with these thoughts almost every day. who does this? who says yes to adoption? to forgoing trying to have his own? his own offspring.  to carry on his name.   his looks.  his lineage. who says yes to a different color? who says yes to one child? to two? to three? who says yes to three children? at one time? the father of my children. he said yes. he says yes, every day. yes to a different path, a different plan. yes to a different color. yes to older. yes to more than one. he skipped the middle of the night feedings and went straight into 3am seizures with…